Friday 30 March 2012

Are we really so narrow minded ????

What is your view about a widower??? The usual answer we get is he s still an eligible marriage candidate. But when it s a widow the world gives her a different name. Or more specifically the Indian mindset about the whole thing is very narrow. The bitter truth is that it is the fellow women who speaks the most without even understanding the fact that it is the individuals decision not theirs. How long are we going to be ignorant about these kind of issues? Why is an 25 years old widow not eligible for a second marriage ? 

With so much anger and helplessness am writing this blog seeing a brutal torture being done to a widow in her workplace by her peers. The words thrown at her there is no less than a dagger. It stabs her in her heart so strongly that she decides to quit herself from the harsh world. We as fellow human beings must remember that the words used by us will bounce back on us and will hit us hard. Even to give a penny to a beggar we think so much and then only give but while speaking why are we not being so watchful?  Are we so narrow minded to accept this discrimination? 
Wake up and be conscious to what is happening around!!! 

Anu

Wednesday 28 March 2012

I wonder!!!

We all speak about career growth, status etc day in and day out but only a few think about personal growth(not exactly physical growth as u imagine ). It has been really long since i shared something here and now when I am sitting in my office thinking of what next in life it just came to my mind outta blue that is there really a personal growth that is happening to me? Do I as a person develop and learn something which helps the fellow beings at some point or the other? Is there something called as values that are still existing in this world which is just producing selfish masses?? I wonder!
Introspecting ourselves at the end of each day gives a lot of insight about what we really did and what more is left. It is not always that we'l be on the safer zone. So why not we think about these and try to do something which will benefit the fellow beings around us! 
More to know and more to go.....