Are we really so narrow minded ????

What is your view about a widower??? The usual answer we get is he s still an eligible marriage candidate. But when it s a widow the world gives her a different name. Or more specifically the Indian mindset about the whole thing is very narrow. The bitter truth is that it is the fellow women who speaks the most without even understanding the fact that it is the individuals decision not theirs. How long are we going to be ignorant about these kind of issues? Why is an 25 years old widow not eligible for a second marriage ? 

With so much anger and helplessness am writing this blog seeing a brutal torture being done to a widow in her workplace by her peers. The words thrown at her there is no less than a dagger. It stabs her in her heart so strongly that she decides to quit herself from the harsh world. We as fellow human beings must remember that the words used by us will bounce back on us and will hit us hard. Even to give a penny to a beggar we think so much and then only give but while speaking why are we not being so watchful?  Are we so narrow minded to accept this discrimination? 

Wake up and be conscious to what is happening around!!! 

Anu

I wonder!!!

We all speak about career growth, status etc day in and day out but only a few think about personal growth(not exactly physical growth as u imagine ). It has been really long since i shared something here and now when I am sitting in my office thinking of what next in life it just came to my mind outta blue that is there really a personal growth that is happening to me? Do I as a person develop and learn something which helps the fellow beings at some point or the other? Is there something called as values that are still existing in this world which is just producing selfish masses?? I wonder!
Introspecting ourselves at the end of each day gives a lot of insight about what we really did and what more is left. It is not always that we'l be on the safer zone. So why not we think about these and try to do something which will benefit the fellow beings around us! 
More to know and more to go.....

Night of realisation

jolly, responsibility free life for four beautiful years comes to an end and the end leavs one with so many mixed emotions. one such beautiful and treasured emotion is bidding bye to your best friend when she leavs out of country to study. i was standing in the airport with my small gang of friends to bid bye to her. time was still there as we were very early. all of us were happily chatting around, being introduced to her future classmates and their families laughing and as usual puling each others legs. then the time came to leav us and go to her check-in point suddenly from nowhere a hollow feeling clings to me. i jus turn around to see whether everyone who came with me are fine but then realized that all of us were sailing on the same boat. she came to me to tell bye but we did not speak. just hugged her with tears flowing from our eyes. its just that we never realize the value and worth of a person till we are pushed to the parting line. that moment i understood what this girls has been in my life and what a beautiful footprint she has left for me. i really felt at that moment why don we all know the value of what is really close to us untill we re about to lose it?? maybe this is the way things are made in this planet or that we humans do not have such high skills of thinking !!!